Discover Shared Interests Safely
Answer from 4 different perspectives. See where you align and where you differ, with built-in conversation starters to discuss without pressure.
TL;DR
- Comprehensive kink library with descriptions
- 4 perspectives: receiver/giver × dominant/submissive
- Answer types: yes, maybe, no
- Filter results by matches, curious, or mismatches
- All responses encrypted, we can't see them
How It Works
- Answer Privately — Rate interests without your partner seeing individual answers.
- See Only Matches — Shared interests revealed together. Mismatches stay private.
- 4 Perspectives — Each kink rated from receiver/giver and dominant/submissive angles.
- Discuss Safely — Unlock conversation starters for curious matches.
How Matching Works
You're both enthusiastic. This is a green light to explore.
One or both are open to exploring. Worth a conversation.
One wants it, one doesn't. Shown with option to discuss without pressure.
Neither interested. Hidden from results to keep things focused.
Privacy First
EncryptedYour answers are visible to your partner so you can see where you align and where you differ. Mismatches include a "discuss" option with suggested conversation starters — no pressure, just an invitation to understand each other better.
All responses are end-to-end encrypted. We cannot see what you answered.
Common Questions
What if I'm not kinky?
The questionnaire includes vanilla and mild interests too. It's about finding any shared interests, not just extreme ones. Many couples discover simple things they'd both enjoy.
Can I skip questions?
Yes. Skipped questions are treated as "no" for matching purposes. No pressure to answer everything.
What if my partner sees I'm interested in something they're not?
That's okay! Mismatches are shown with a "discuss" button that suggests gentle conversation starters. The goal is understanding, not pressure. You can filter the view to focus on matches if you prefer.
Ready to discover what you share?
Coming soon to iOS & Android.