A shared pleasure collection can add variety and excitement to your intimacy. This guide covers how to start the conversation, choose your first items, and incorporate them naturally.
Last updated: January 2026
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The hardest part is often bringing it up. Here's how to do it without making it awkward:
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Frame it as something to explore together rather than something missing. Try: "I read about couples trying new things together and thought it could be fun for us. Would you be open to browsing some options?" Make it about shared exploration, not fixing a problem.
Start with something simple that enhances what you already enjoy. A small vibrator for external stimulation, massage candles, or a blindfold are low-pressure starting points. Avoid anything intimidating or complex for your first purchase.
A lockable box, a dedicated drawer with a lock, or a storage bag that comes with many products works well. Store items clean and dry. If you have children or roommates, a locked container is worth the investment for peace of mind.
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